Venting a little!

Where to even begin!

Well I guess I can start off by saying sorry I haven’t blogged in a while! We just moved off base so we have been busy the last couple months. But I’m back and I have a lot to get out! And blogging is the best way to do that!

First PHOTOGRAPHERS! Ugh!!! Yes I may have a fancy camera that I have spent a lot of money on plus all its accessories but I’m not calling myself a professional. I take pictures because I love what I do! I don’t have everything I should but I’ve spent enough in the next year maybe I’ll spend some more and get the rest... But right now I think I have done enough! I’m so over the other “photographers” yes you have a business license. Yes you have you on copyright and yes you have this and that but guess what have you signed up to be a PPA?? NO you haven’t so get off you high horse and let us do what we love! I’m sorry the up and coming picture takers are taking all your business who cares you have your reg customers so who cares if the ones you are losing just want to spend a lil bit less for the same quality photos. Not my fault you charge out the ass for a couple photos! Come on you live on a military base our husbands don’t get paid much and most of us live pay check to pay check! Ugh! Ok even vent there! On to the next... 

Some things that sicken me! Honestly I have all but 1 or 2 friends here! I try to bend over backwards for. If I’m not doing anything and you need a sitter I’m there and I usually don’t make you pay. If you need someone to hang out with I’m there! But when I need something no one is there! My best friend left me alone! But I don’t blame her I want to get outta this dump to! So I have come to the conclusion for the umpteenth time! I will stay a hermit! And that is that! I love watching my girls grow up and I don’t need friends to do that! 

Last! I hate the military! Yes I’m used to but guess what I can still complain just like everyone else can. Matter of fact I complain a lot which I should just be happy since there are worst things in life but when something happens when you think everything is fine and dandy you’re going to complain! So please stop tell me you have had it worse be happy or that it’s the military deal with it! I know this but I can still complain! J

Well I think that’s just about it! Other than how my life is going since I don’t post it all! 

My baby girl is now 7 months old and almost walking! Where has the time gone! Whew! She’s gotten so big! We have moved off base because there is way too much drama on base. I love our new house and I’m happy we moved! We bought a second car to get me for point A to point B.  My husband did re-enlist and he has finished his schooling so he is now a crew chief J yay!

Well I think I’m finished for now! Enjoy the rest of you day and comment if you wish J

Happy Two Months Baby Girl!

Its officially! My baby girl is 2 months old! :( 

Where has the time gone! 

My 8 pound baby has grown up so much! She love to stand and spit bubbles. Shes a smiling machine! 

We are still fully breastfeed! YAY! :) She is also wrapped around daddies lil finger!

Call it what you will.....

Ok. This is definitely going to be all over the place lol but oh well. About almost 1-2 years ago i was having problems with a bunch of people here. Everything slowed down and now everything is back to normal somewhat with some of the people. But not all and frankly there is a certain person ill never be friends with again(i will not post names). Im not going to tell anyone not to be friends with her but just to watch your back. As soon as you see the real person she will turn her back on you and start a whole bunch of fake rumors. Trust me i have heard everything because it all comes back to me. Why i have no idea maybe because im "friends" with everyone she has talked crap about. It will start off at not taking care of your kids or your house to cheating to lying and then to spying and creeping. She will turn every story around and then when you confront her she will send her husband after you because ever battle she starts he has to "finish". All i have to say is think twice before making friends here. Everyone has their cliques. Dont be sucked into something you dont want to be.

Drama seems to follow me everywhere when i try to stay out of it. Oh well. Ill stay a hermit in my house and stick to the few real friends i have here :) 

And you know i dont even mind staying inside all day with my girls! I get to see them grow and i get to see them learn new things everyday! Which is honestly better then hanging out with someone who talks crap. :)

Whlep thats all i needed to say! Next blog is something happier and exciting!  :)

Its been awhile!!!! WOWOWOW

Well shes here!!!

Zaelia May Snyder!

Feb 19th 2011 (her due date)

Shes now 8 weeks :) She will officially be 2 months old April 19th :) 

AHH its gone by sooo fast!

Ill get to my hospital story here in a couple days. But im going to try to get back into the swing of things! 

Probably a post once a week. :) 

Well ill let everyone get back to their day :) 

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Welp! Day 2 & 3 . Ut Oh

^^^ So true! 

Whelp Day 2 & 3. Looks like ill be coming back to FB world sooner then i thought since there is a lot going on. Probably tomorrow evening. :) 

On to good news :) 

So i guess it true things have to fall apart for thing to get better and thats just what has happen :) Between money getting tight because of child support and other bills finally things are starting to look up :) Tomorrow my husband gets to re enlist (swear in for another 5 years 7 months) He wants to re enlist in flight with me there. Idk about it thou cuz im a scaredy cat and i dont want to get on a helicopter. Hopefully we can just do it in the squadron ready room lol. We will be getting a bonus (not saying how much but more then we thought :) ) plus our taxes. Our hurting bank account wont be hurting much longer. 

Things to come this year or hopefully to come :) 

(not in order)

Own our first house :) 

Get a car for myself :) 

Give birth to a heathly baby Zealia :)

Family pictures :)

Get back into photography!

New things for the truck ie. tires, rims, bedliner, cover

Most of all! 

debt free other then my car and the truck :) 

yayayayayayay!!!!

Hello military for the next 5 years

Whelp hub finally got the word! His package has been accepted and he is going to be re enlisting for another 5 years :) yay!  One of many stresses lifted!!





Now off to my shows!

8pm - Glee
8pm - Switched at Birth
10pm - Storage Wars
10pm - Teen Mom 2
10:30pm -Storage Wars

35 weeks and some days. :)

Pretty belly with no stretch marks :)

Blueberry Cheesecake :) Mmmm. Day 1 Detox

Welp as i stated yesterday im going to be doing a 7 day detox from FB. I will have to stay its been great not having to update you on whats going on all day or having my phone go off every 5 seconds because i have a notification. haha. 

These blogs for the next 7 days are going to be super boring because all im basically going to write about its my day. So here it goes! Yesterday and Today were all about deep cleaning. Dusting, Windexing, Vacuuming, Carpet cleaning, Closets gone thru, and decuttering. :) And must i say im pretty happy with my house :) Its smells super delicious thanks to Scentsy! Blueberry Cheesecake smells super awesome! We went thru all of Zaelia's clothes. And i must say she has a freaking ton! But its all sorted in sizes. Yay. I finally found a coming home outfit. Yay. 

Tonight ill be starting on my Week 2 school work which i did not realized was a lot. :/ But im sure ill get it all done. This Class is Adult Development so i believe im going to learn something, probably more theories lol. 

Right now were watching Next Great Baker. I have shows every night of the week (which keeps my evenings busy. I love it!)

Onto the good news which i dont think i have posted about in here. Hubbys Re-Enlistment got APPROVED! Yay. Just waiting of more information. This could mean we could be moving in the near future or we could be staying here. 

Welp I dont know what else to blog about since all we have done today was clean. So im going to get back to Pinterest and look up more DIY projects for this week :) 

P.s The next few days are going to be tough since hub is going back to work and i usually sit on FB all day while Brae does her own thing. I can do it thou. 

Hope everyone had a great monday. :) Ill be back on here later to post pictures of my beautiful clean home :))) 

35 weeks and whats going on :)

I found this wonderful ladies blog on Pinterest and ive been trying to figure out a way to make it my own but i cant. So this is Adapted from Little Baby Garvin. :) 

Photo By: Daniela Curl Photography

How far along? 35 Weeks

Total weight gain: 28lbs. Hoping to not get to 170 :/ 
Maternity clothes? YESSS!  With Brae I never had to wear them. With Zaelia they are the best thing ever!
Stretch marks? Nope. :)
Sleep: Whats that??? Haha lol j.k A lil bit of sleep here and there but nothing i can complain about.
Best moment this week: Will have to be 1-20th Appt. Ill get to find out if i've progressed more :) 
Miss Anything? Being able to get up and down with out asking for help lol.
Movement: TONS!! She's a little wiggle worm.
Food cravings: Anything Cinnamon. And of course pizza lol.
Anything making you queasy or sick: Not really.
Gender: Girl!!! Zaelia May Snyder (Zael-Li-A)
Labor Signs:  Contractions here and there. Some braxton hicks and the other real. 1cm dilated as of 1-12
Symptoms: Back pain, lil swelling of the feet. lil heartburn here and there.
Belly Button in or out? DEF OUT!!! haha
Wedding rings on or off? off. But i havent been able to wear them since Brae :(
Happy or Moody most of the time: How about just moody lol. I can flip in 2.5 seconds lol.

Looking forward to: Being able to hold Zaelia :)) And to not have this belly lol. 

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Alrighty!!! 

Now on to why im taking a  break from Facebook. Its way to much stress. And im not getting any school work done. I need to focus more on school rather then facebook. This week i need to get my week 2,3,4 discussions and assignments done so that if i do go into early labor i wont be rushing to get things done. Also FB is way to much stress. Ever little thing gets on my nerves. I have about maybe 2 real friends here and the rest and probably "friends" or "fake friends" behind my back. So i need to get away be i snap on someone. I am going to be blogging (well try to) every day and post pictures. Im not sure if im going to Deactivate my FB yet. Maybe just keep it up and post pictures on it. Not anything fancy. Its really my only way to contacting some people (like family). If anyone has a problem with it. So be it! I dont need your crap. :) 

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Skype: Qtmommie07

If you dont have my number as for it :) 

Have a great week everyone :) 

this is not my first rodeo

First off (i dont even know why say thing when im pissed or upset but i do) this blog is not directed towards anyone. As a matter of fact ive been keeping this in for quite a long time!

Where to start, oh yeah with my title to this blog! This is not my first rodeo. I gave birth to a healthy baby girl 2 years ago. So i know being a mommy to a new born is rough. I know the night at the hospital are short. I know the 34 weeks is to early for her arrival! I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW! I dont need to hear it 24/7. Just because i say i want to hold my baby girl doesnt mean i want her out right this second! Just means i ready to hold her. Ive got a lil over 2 weeks before im full term so we will see where it goes from there. Im tired of people telling me how to rasie my unborn. I listen to everyone when brae was a new born and guess what i barely remember her as an infant why because i didnt do it myself! So 9 times out of 10 the things you are telling me now is going in one ear and out the other !

I still have so much to do to get ready for her so its best if she doesnt come right now. 

Tomorrow i have an apt in the morning. Hoping to get some news since i keep having Braxton Hicks. I will have a 35 week blog up on Sat. :) So watch out for it. 

Welp im getting off here. Going to get ahead in school work and relax and post another blog later. 

Have a good day everyone.

Finally a week later!

Finally after a week we are all feeling better! Me and Hubby still have stuff noses but its not as bad :) YAY! 

We havent done much lately because we all were sick but i was able to put together a game night which was great :) It was nice to see our friends :). 

Im not 34 weeks but lately things have been different. (There will be a 35 week blog so i wont go into detail :) )

Well this is short and sweet i just wanted to update some of you :) 

Oh annnnd i finished the first college class!! YAY! Go me!!

Wednesday! Happy Hump Day!

Welp I hope everyone is having a great start to the new year :))) Us not so much. First Brae started out sick and then it was mommy then daddy now we all are sick. Baby love has an apt tomorrow morning hoping its nothing serious if so looks like me and the hubby will be taking a try to Urgent Care. :( I think its either a cold or viral infection but we will see. Until then shes being the biggest pita haha. She's not acting like she is sick shes acting normal but you can tell. The meds have started going right thru her. (She has the runs ): ) And her nose is like a faucet and yellow which makes me think Viral. So if hers is viral its the same as ours. Hot tea and Soup have been doing wonders! Just need to find out something to put on my nose since its RAW!! :( 

 

Resolutions and what to come in 2012!!

I only came up with a few resolutions because i honestly think no one goes by them and forgets them in 3-4 weeks. So heres a few reasonable on for me. 

1: Have a healthy lil miss Zaeli!!

2: Finish my first year of school! I don’t graduate till 2014 but i want to get thru this year with at least a B average (i was never great in high school)

3: Lose the baby weight and get back to where i was before i got married :) 128 maybe 125. Like everyone we get married and gain weight.

4: Become more lovey i guess you can say. Im not the lovey dovey type like most wives are. Its going to take me some time to get used to it but going thru 2 deployment and tons work ups since we got married 3 years ago it put a toll on me.

5: Live by these few resolutions and don’t forget about them lol.

Theres a lot going on this year. And im excited for all of it! But here are some of the main things :)

First in a couple weeks we should find out the status of Danny's re-enlistment.  Right now its at headquarters. which means only a few more people to sign it :)))) He is going from CH-53 Air framer/AO to Ch-53 Crew Chief. In his terms going from the right window to the left window :) Not much in the change of job just more responsibilities.

Next, Zaeli May should be here after or maybe before we hear about the re-enlistment. Although we are not 100% ready for Zaeli, we will be in a couple of weeks. She already has more then enough clothes. More me me, danny, and Brae put together haha :) Brae is not getting the hint she has a little sister coming. She points to my belly and goes "sissy" :) 

And Last, Were hoping to buy our first house :) (Well that is if we stay in NC) We know what we want just have to get out bills together and some things paid off. :)

Well for now TATA!! :) There will be another blog tonight. 

:) 

Happy New Year and Much More!!!!

Oh boy i dont even know where to start. :/ 

First off 

HAPPY NEW YEAR!! :)

Yay 2012. That means lots of things to come. 

Well i spent New Years Eve cleaning the house and then i had to baby sit so a couple to go out for their anniversary :) Then we went to the Farrar's and did a lil thing there. Which was a lot of fun. I wish i got a video of preggo me doing the party rock dance haha. We played this new game called The Logo Game! Omg so much fun and so many laughs.We did get into bed until about 4am. And had to be up at 8 with Brae haha. But its ok we came back home and napped :) 

Besides me and Brae being super sick the past couple days everything has been good. Finally got my EPI consult done yesterday so i can stop worrying about going into early labor and not having the EPI haha. And i also got Ihop which wasnt the best but still hit the spot! :) 

This is going to be everywhere becuase im trying to catch up on the past few days. haha.

But im offically 33 weeks :)) Yay. Im getting so close!!! My nest appt is the 12th and then i start my weekly apts. :))) Yay.

Well time to start my resolutions but that will be in another blog probably later tonight because i totally forgot my classes start back up today! :( One week left of this class and ill be done my first class :) Super YAY!!!!